太阳的东升西落，地球运行的轨道，潮起潮落，月亮的阴阳圆缺，春夏秋冬的更替，一切都是那么的有规律。其实在人类的心灵里也存在着许多规律，然而却很少有人了解它们。[/size]
　　以下是十四项心理定律，你可以应用它们在任何的领域里。无论是销售沟通、还是设立目标、时间管理、领导组织都可以应用这些原理和定律。

坚信定律当你对某件事情抱着百分之一万的相信，它最后就会变成事实。
期望定律期望定律告诉我们，当我们怀着对某件事情非常强烈期望的时候，我们所期望的事物就会出现。

情绪定律情绪定律告诉我们，人百分之百是情绪化的。即使有人说某人很理性，其实当这个人很有“理性”地 思考问题的时候，也是受到他当时情绪状态的影响，“理性地思考”本身也是一种情绪状态。所以人百分之百是情绪化的动物，而且任何时候的决定都是情绪化的决 定。

因果定律任何事情的发生，都有其必然的原因。有因才有果。换句话说，当你看到任何现象的时候，你不用觉得不可理解或者奇怪，因为任何事情的发生都必有其原因。你今天的现状结果是你过去种下的因导致的结果。

吸引定律当你的思想专注在某一领域的时候，跟这个领域相关的人、事、物就会被你吸引而来。

、重复定律任何的行为和思维，只要你不断的重复就会得到不断的加强。在你的潜意识当中，只要你能够不断地重复一些人、事、物，它们都会在潜意识里变成事实。

累积定律很多年轻人都曾梦想做一番大事业，其实天下并没有什么大事可做，有的只是小事。一件一件小事累积起来就形成了大事。任何大成就或者大灾难都是累积的结果。

辐射定律当你做一件事情的时候，影响的并不只是这件事情的本身，它还会辐射到相关的其他领域。任何事情都有辐射作用。

相关定律相关定律告诉我们：这个世界上的每一件事情之间都有一定的联系，没有一件事情是完全独立的。要解决某个难题最好从其他相关的某个地方人手，而不只是专注在一个困难点上。

　　在加拿大艾伯塔省有一名高中女生最近发出豪言壮语：到25岁，她一定会成为百万富翁！她近日接到美国收视率极高的奥普拉电视台的邀请，将到该台的脱口秀节目上与观众分享她的致富理念和经验。

continue again , I hope the next post is not 1 years later.

Today,I watched Brian Tracy's another successful course, it began with exactly the same thing with what Athony Robbin said, learn from the successful people, make clear your goal, try to move forward day by day.

I will do that , and I have to do that....

the words in hal and roger and in wenquxing

Hal and roger last night:
parrot, gurnard, cannibal, gorilla, wit, arrogance, blubber,howl,dangle, arouse, churn, plank, midriff, squirm, stanchion,snarl, leer

Wenquxing:
thrift, reciprocation,persevering,persevere, chastity,piety,solidarity, xenophobic,fanaticism, protestant,psychosis, choronic, javelin, chariot, pentathlon, armament,tupelo,physiological,causality,taboo, incest, blab, wreck, spin, tickle,inflict, rattlesnake, sidewinder,reprimand,acquaintance,sourly, crafty,drone, mae, gullible, charisma, ritual, twirl, stern, bruise, schooner, roar, muffle, barbed, rear, barracuda, giddy,dazzle, tentacle, shovel, anemone,pedal,minaret, fester, porcupine, urchin,convolution,polyp,trunk, stag, fern, sway, ivy, moss, hoodoo, lest, bucketful,inhale, scold, toss, serpent, forensic, pandemic, parachute,shepherd, camouflage, speculate,memoir, urge, proprietor, sole,layoff, cataclysmic,engulf, prosper,verge, moat,pulsate, thesaurus,insidious, inflection morale, guardian, inculcate, paranoia,chunk,precis, nitpick, relive

ok, finally continue

so, today's goal,
1,sleep before 2, so that mean, begin to read willard price at 1:00
2, finish chapter 2 of thinking in java
3, do one assign or two, of java
4, review the french
5,type the new word
6, make the plan of reading.(policy design, globalization)
7 , continue Athony robbins
8,financial planning
9,give reply to zhangxiaoni
10, call fengning
.................to be continued

day 6 worth living worth recording

the Power of Focus

1. How your “focus” determines what you get
2. How what you represent in your mind controls your state
3. How to use the power of quality questions to get what you really want

Focus on different things to change your state, to change the state by asking questions,

the passionate question is:
1,if I sleep early , what are the happy things I could do?
2,if Who I am going to email, and my this friend happier
3, what kind of programming thing I want to do today to make myself feel good
4, how much money I can save or invest to have everyday finicial check
5, what could I do to make myselft more passionate


hahaha ask myself

day 5

let your body make you passionate,

What Everyone Wants and How You Can Get It!

1. · What we all want-and why
2. · How to develop passion in your life
3. · How to manage your emotions
4. How to use the power of physiology

1 alway aware when i am not, rank my status
when I am passionate:
I'd love to helpfriends, talk to friends and even strangers,speak fast and a lot, walk fast ,and I like jump to reach as highest as I can.

When I am not passsionate:
I would just sit in front of the PC and wondering around, and boring, or even search in the msn
and walk slow, speak slow, try to hide myself. and dislike to talk to friends , and don't do anything

2 try to change breathe ,gesture,and other things

strench myself and breath and walk fast and talk fast
hehe
ok

continue for day 4

and the ways to break the pattern:
1, make a alarm, and get drink, and milk, make myself sleepy.
2, everyday, after dinner, it is the money time
3,every day before sleep , it is the email time
4 everyday for the programming thing, always aware of it
hehehe, it is not what tony want i guess.

If it is worthy to record?

ok, now let me continue, definitely one thing is right, that is if your life is wothy to record, write something everyday

The Science of Success Conditioning: Neuro-Associative Conditioning (NAC)

1. The three levels of responsibility necessary for lasting change
2. The three basic elements of NAC
3. How to use NAC to create massive change in your life

and then 4 things that I want to change in my life now:

everyday, at least 7 hours sleep and get up at 8:30, so that means at least I should go to sleep at 1:00
Reason: 1 Recently I get up at 10-12 as alway, I feel like I leak 2 or 3 hours out of my everyday life. If I keep on doing this, I will lose so many hours in my life , it is terrible!
2 I Couldn't enjoy the nice mood in the morning, maybe also nice weather( very small possibility)
3 Getting up late will increase my anxiety level, which I am struggling with
4 Spending not enough time make me fail in the exam, maybe

everyday, make clear of my monetary level and think about the financial plan

1 if I don't do that, everyday I don't know how much I spend and how much left, How much I can use in the future, it will jeopardize my finicial condition, and make me bankrupt hehe, in the coming 8 months, or even in the coming 10 years

everyday, spend some time on getting contact with old friends
I already give the reason for this one



everyday, spend some time on Programming
Reason: if I don't do that, I can't fulfill my second life goal, and there is no much time left for me to do that also

ok another thing I want to do is ... reply the email immediately

come on, man, why so lazy , reply your email immediately

Read everyday news for half an hour everyday

I must change it

I have to go to bed at 1:30 today, and sit in faculty at 9 tmr.

It feels terrible to sit here from 1 in the afternoon

teeeeerrrriiiibbbbllllleeee

hehe, paranoid........

so late today

Ok, it is not that easy to keep it as a everyday habit, but I am doing it, so today the topic is
"Taking Control: The First Step"

1. How your destiny is determined
2. The four elements of destiny
3. How you can condition yourself for consistent success

and the assignment today is to give the neuro-association,
Ok then , negative ones
I associate learn sth myself is more effective than learning from teacher
I associate getting money with very easy and with no pain
I associate talking to the teachers is painful
I associale chasing girls with embarrassment

Then good ones:
Reading book with fun
learning with becoming more powerful


ok that is all

Honestly it is hard

Ok, it is really hard to follow all of the target i listed yesterday, but I am trying, the problem is that it is so hard to concentrate on only one goal.

ok, in the formal note:

• The Controlling Force that Directs Your Life
• Why we do what we do
• How to harness the twin forces that drive all human behavior
• Why you sometimes sabotage yourself
• How to use your greatest "motivator

For me, the important thing is
the association of pain and pleasure the two fundamental forces of human behavior, the fear of pain and the desire for pleasure.

ok finish the assignment for today
Learn french
if i don't do it, I will lost my chance to learn it, I will feel aweful about myself, I will never know it, next time I went to france, I will still be a idiot.
if I could make it, I feel wonderful, other people think I am talented, and I will be confident about my language ability
Learn American accent
if I don't do it, I will keep this accent forever, and have not enough confidence to speak english, and it will be a drawback of my career
if I could make it , I will have nice american accent and i will be confident to say whatever i want
haha, exaggerating, and also I will feel better
Call my friend everyday
if I don't do it, I will lose contact with all the friend in china, lost my network in china, it is hard for me when i have my own busness in china. And what is more, I will feel lonely and hopeless when I am low.
If could do it , I might build a very strong network and take the advantage of this network in the future. And also I need friend to share my joy, fearness , sadness, and all the thought for the life.
Write this blog everyday
if not I could feel pointless, and meanless for what I am doing, and give up all the effort I did before
If achieved it, I will feel triumphant and self-achieved....... and everything hehe

ok then that is for today

ok, 1 st day to follow it

en.... really not easy, this morning (actually afternoon), when I really sit down and do sth, it is already 1:30, so the first thing I learn should be , get up early, man........

And I listen to the address of IBM, it seems talking about things about Internet, which I love....

and now begin to do my presentation research, I find that I realy don't like this kind of short-term goal, it break my time into parts........

ok , no more nonsense ACTION